When do we feel nervous ?

An act of selfishness makes us feel nervous. ummm?
1. There are hundred different things you can do for your well-being and your own happiness. That is certainly not defined as a selfish act.
2. You can do something to yourself just because some one wants you to do so. Even then its not so bad, because its just self sacrifice you do for your happiness.
3. Some times we get trapped between two different people, where you want one to act to the desire of the other. This is really selfish, and causes nervousness either ways.

Snow in London on these days

 Let me tell you a story, this is not the real incident, its an imaginary story based on the real incident.,
        One of my most loved friend form school days(P) wants my other close friend(K) to attend gym classes. This is the mistake which I did. I insisted (K) to attend the classes because I wanted to impress (P). I knew (K) was least bit interested. Now I am worried that (K) is not listening to me and (P) would not be very happy with me. Then over time I am also worried that I am imposing something on (K) just because I wanted to impress (P). In both cases, even if (K) attends or not, it creates nervousness in me. and has resulted in this stupid blog!

So........ never ask any one to do something to make someone else happy. I was asking myself, 'If someone does it to you how angry will you feel?' hence, No.1 is fully accepted, No.2 is still OK but No.3 never do in life...!